Hubby Talent

I must say I'm one of the luckiest women in the world I'm not filthy rich, I don't own mounds of fashionable Louis Vuitton bags, or drive a Benz... But I do have a husband that cooks. He's great at it and what better way to a woman's soul than a man who cooks. Recently the hubby has been into storing his light spiced kim chi. This Kim chi is very flavorful, non oily and moderately spicy. It is a combination of various pickled vegetables that you eat as a side dish with rice or meats.

I find most Kim Chi sold in stores very soft, flat, and lacking flavor. The hubby likes to add carrots, and a special ingredient that gives it that 'zing' for your taste buds. It leans more towards the sweet and zesty with a crunch. 

MIXING THE KIM CHI: MAKE SURE YOU WEAR GLOVES! IT'S SUPER SPICY

PACKAGING KIM CHI IN TUBS, IT GETS BETTER OVER TIME

THE FINAL PACKAGED PRODUCT

I absolutely love to eat, what woman doesn't? So I would like to know what hubby talent does your guy have that you'd like to give a shout out for?? I use the term 'hubby' loosely, it can be any guy in your life that brings you joy, your boyfriend, best friend, hubby or whomever. Remember no matter how big or small the talent, as long as it brings joy to your life that's all that matters! ;) 

Cheers and Happy Lovin!

Moving On...

So I am talking to a close friend, she tells me last night her boyfriend of five years has broken up with her. He tells her he loves her but has fallen out of love. Alright, I am definitely not one to talk about lovey dovey issues, but I've had my fair share of crappy excuses and break ups. Let's face it playing the dumper, especially the dumpee role sucks lemons. I never understood the concept of why people can't explain themselves. Every answer comes short formed such as "I'm sorry I just don't love you anymore". "I don't know", or "i'm sorry I don't know what else to tell you".

Surely people should know how or where or when things went wrong. If it was a combination of things then pray tell and give examples. Dumpers out there you should owe the dumpees THAT much at least, given the years of effort, tears, sweat, and energy. I guess that is how some relationships work, and personalities change along with emotions.

Being in love is great, and every loved one has engraved a piece of themselves within a relationship despite good and bad (hopefully more for good). However, many people have lost themselves in a relationship, we forget who we once were lacking in personal identity, so those of you who are in the midst of a break up, experiencing a fresh breakup, or have difficulty forgetting an old break up, revive your self independence and uplift your personal identity once again. I know it is easier said then done yet it's true and must be done.

Remember who you once were: Were you that independent self sufficient, stubborn yet loveable individual? Were you that selfish yet determined individual in which nothing could stop you from reaching your goals? Did you have a personal bucket list of goals you wanted to achieve? Were you one to always have Saturday parties with friends, and Sunday brunch with families? Main point is take what you learned and loved from the relationship and move on.

Moving on will take time but one way or another it will happen. This moment gives one a chance to take control of a situation and focus on one's self. Furthermore it may be a blessing into reaching great achievements without hindrance or to meet someone that is more suitable. So all you dumpee's out there keep your heads held high arch your back and keep on moving forward as some of the changes that occur may be more positive than you think!

You make me AngShuS!

Whats Up World! Hope You all are doing well and dandy. I want to start off today by talking about the "A" word. No...no not that one and no it doesn't end with "hole" smart ass. Now, I just want to say it's these "A" type of people that will eat and grind at every fiber of your being, and Yes its a natural human emotion and I won't lie if I said I've never been a victim to this word.

So That being said are YOU an anxious person?

With every thing that humanity has to experience and go through anxious people make things even worse. They will sigh with extreme distress, and are uptight about the most miniscule details that can be easily fixed. Anxiety will go so far as to extend its energy and affect their surroundings. Needless to say the least anxious people and anal-ness go hand in hand. Either way they are "A" types. When anal people don't get their way they get anxious, those who are anxious attempt to become anal to seek balance and control of their anxiety. It's like a never ending cycle and these people never realize who they affect or how this form of negative energy can dampen the atmosphere whether it be work or play.

So prior to freaking out ask yourself these questions:
Can it be fixed? If not are the consequences THAT severe? (if any at all). Do I have the opportunity to change it the second time? Have I learned anything from this? Is it the end of the world and zombies have become the living dead? Do I have a flesh eating disease?

If you've answered 'no' for either one of the last two questions YOU'LL BE FINE. So stop making a big stink out of the most ridiculous nonsense, take a deep breath, come to your senses, regain your strength and take a chill flippin pill y'all!

"revenge feels great but love feels even greater!" - quju

peace!